Let me see you do it!

One thing that happens quite frequently out here is that the dads get frustrated and embarrassed if the moms push for a long time or make noises when they push. They believe because she's showing "weakness" that she is shaming herself and him. So quite often, the dads will click their tongues or gives exasperated sighs. It's really annoying for me.

The last time a dad did that, I couldn't help but think, "listen, buddy. Let me stick a watermelon up you and watch you push it out. Let's see how effective and quiet you are!"

However, I remained serene and calm, quietly catching the strong mother's baby a few minutes later.

Ate Grace and the baby I caught - photo taken by Deborah for Help Intl Ministries