Thursday, August 30, 2012

School

Last night, Ate Lyds asked me if I'd be able to join her this morning to go photograph a program most of the midwives' kids were in at their school. I agreed.

So this morning we took a trike to the school. Karissa joined us and she and I got a lot of stares as we were the only white people in the building. But I didn't mind, as most of the ones staring were cute little kids. :-D

Anyway, the first performance was some dancers and then everyone jubilantly sang the Philipino National Anthem. It was fun, I got video.

Then, Rain-Lyds (Ate Lyds' daughter), Maybel (Ate Bhel's daughter), and Mariel (Ate Bhel's other daughter) joined their kindergarten class and sang and danced to a song. It was really cute, especially since Mariel held her flag upside down... :-D

Next, Rain-Lyds recited a poem, but the microphone wasn't really on so no one could hear her. However, she looked really cute standing up there talking. After that came Maybel...Except she got stage fright...so she stood there looking terrified, then she covered her face and raced out of the spotlight. It was really cute. Except Ate Bhel wasn't too happy.

Johannah's dance troup was the last one we staid for. Her dancing was amazing! It was really fun to watch.

Enjoy the pictures from the morning!



National Anthem

Maybel in the front row, waving at her Mommy


Mariel looking back for reassurance from her Mom

Mariel singing and dancing with the kindergarten class - notice her upside down flag

Rain Lyds (far right in the back) and Maybel (second to right in the back) singing

more dancers

Rain Lyds reciting her poem
Maybe getting stage fright
  
I thought this was kinda cute. But in reality, Maybel's crying in her teacher's arms while Rain Lyds is smirking about it...


Johannah's dance team




Mymy! :-D

Claire - she's started smiling every time she sees me. So sweet!


Ate Dina and Claire

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Do You Have a Brother?

Yesterday, several nursing students came to Shiphrah to get experience with prenatals. At one point, I walked over to my bag, which was right where they were, and one young woman, probably about 21, said, "Ma'am, I have a question."

Me: "yes?"

"You're really pretty and tall."

Me: "...um...thank you."

She then flushes slightly and smiles, "Do you have a brother?"

Needless to say, she was quite disappointed to discover that he's only 15. Anyway, I was laughing pretty hard and we exchanged Facebook information. This is my kinda gal. :-D

Perhaps Someday...

When I return home, my goal is to become a Certified Nurse Midwife. Once that is completed, I want to open a birth center in North Carolina. Everyone says that third world countries need expert maternity care but America needs it badly too. I want to start a birth center because many times, women want a home birth but are too scared. For them, a birth center is a middle-ground between a hospital and a home. However, I hope to also have the option for a woman to decide between the birth center or her home when she goes into labor. I don't know if that's even possible, but that's my dream. It's at least what they do in (parts of) Europe.


I'd like to locate the birth center near Wake Med Cary, since that's a fairly friendly hospital toward natural birth. Also, that would make it a decent ways away from the birth center in Chapel Hill. I would prefer my birthing home to be in a more residential area so it's more like a home but in a location where I can get a woman to the hospital in about five minutes in case of an emergency.



My birth center would look like a house and be furnished like one.


The downstairs would contain a living room, kitchen, prenatal room, all-purpose room, and probably more rooms which I can't think of right now...



Upstairs would contain four bedroom/birth rooms, each with their own bathroom. In each birthroom would be a king or queen-sized bed in the corner, a tall desk/dresser for birth supplies, and a birthing pool. Aside from the bathroom and birth pool, each room would look like a normal bedroom, as if the couple is at home. Also upstairs would be a room for the on-call midwives and (possibly) their families. Everything would have a relaxed, home-like atmosphere.




Outside would be a beautiful garden with a path for people to walk around. There would also be a large play-fort for any kids waiting for their moms to finish with prenatals. Behind the house there might also be a swimming pool for prenatal aerobics and occasional prenatal parties during the summer.





I would love to open up the downstairs to be a birthing community, renting out hte living room for child birth education classes, meet-the-doula nights, pregnancy and birth-related movie nights, and other birth-related functions.


If his dream gets to happen, birth in North Carolina would change. :-D

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Rejuvenated

Yesterday I got a nice break from the birth center. When I first got here, there was a record low in births so I was starting to get antsy. Now there's almost always at least one mom in labor. Sometimes there's as many as four or five. Many of the births happen at night so I've been really tired.

Anyway, yesterday was Sunday so I texted Deborah to see if I could go to church with them. She said I could so I arrived at their house at 7am.

The Gundersons and Gustafsons have a tradition where every Sunday they go to McDonalds and eat pancakes. So I joined them. It was fun. After not having pancakes in a while (normally we do it Saturday or Sunday for dinner in my family), even McDonalds pancakes tasted good (I know, I'm pathetic...) :-D

After McDonalds, we walked to church. Union Church of Manila is a combination of Filipino and international congregants. The services are in English. The first service, which we attend, is a more modern service with regard to the music.

Since I've only been able to attend church three times since arriving in the Philippines, it was really nice singing some of my favorite songs - especially In Christ Alone - to a lively beat. Before I knew what I was doing, my hands were signing. I've signed the songs I've sung every Sunday since I was ten-years-old, or so. Since my voice isn't strong, I feel like I worship God best during the singing when my hands are signing. If I'm not signing the songs, then I either don't know the song, don't know any of the signs for the song, or am not paying good attention (not that I've ever done that before...*innocent glance*)

The message was decent. Not anywhere near as good as Pastor Davey's, but I can't complain. The pastors are preaching from the book of Acts and the message yesterday was about how we can share the Good News of the Gospel through both our words and our actions.

After the service, I went with the Gustafsons to the library and enjoyed myself browsing the wide range of titles. While I was looking at books, a middle aged man came up to me and asked if I was the girl who was signing.

"Yes, I was,"

He smiled and said, "I work with a group out here that advocates for the deaf community in Manila. We've been trying to get the news networks to also have someone sign during the news." Then he started telling me about his work and the deaf community out here. He said he'd send Deborah some information to pass along to me about it. I'm looking forward to seeing it! :-D

Next, we headed to the pastor's home for the afternoon. Two years ago, Pastor Steve was in a horrific accident out here and broke his spine, severely damaging his spinal cord. He was told he'd never walk again and was a paraplegic (I think that's the word - whatever Joni Erickson Tada has). However, God miraculously healed him so that, while he doesn't have complete control over everything and can't feel everything, he can walk and is no longer paralyzed. It was amazing talking with him and hearing his story. What a testimony!

We ended up staying at Pastor Steve's home for all the afternoon. We even stayed for dinner. It was such a relaxing afternoon getting to just sit and fellowship with everyone, even though they were (almost) complete strangers. However, I'm sure by the time I leave they won't be strangers. :-D

Anyway, that brief day away was what I "needed" and now I'm happy to be back into the swing-of-things out here, ready to learn more midwifery skills and work alongside the midwives in serving the moms out here.

Ok, sorry if this post seemed a bit drawn-out and rambly. I was just writing my thoughts down as they came to me. :-D

In the Nick of Time

Last night I spent the night at the birth center because there was a mom in labor and I was next up. She is still in labor as I write this and is doing amazingly. She is so strong and perseverent.

Anyway, I was dozing off and on, going to check on her every once in a while then going back to sleep. At 5:43, the birth center's "door bell" started buzzing like crazy so I was quickly on my feet, pulling the heavy front door open. I could hear the mom before I saw her. She was about to deliver.

I didn't think we'd make it inside.

Anyway, we quickly moved inside the birth center and she stopped at the door. "Ok," I thought, "this is going to be an interesting birth."

However, we were able to get her into a delivery room and onto a birth stool. Within a minute of sitting down, her baby was born. She showed up at Shiphrah at 5:43, her baby was born at 5:45.

Then I found out she was a lady Karissa had been doing the prenatal care for.

Oops! Well, even if we had gone sprinting over to the apartment and Karissa came instantly sprinting back with us, she still would have missed the birth. But still, I felt bad.

Oh well. At least the mom (barely) made it in time! :-D

Friday, August 24, 2012

Department of Immigration...

Today, Karissa and I both needed to renew our visas...

Since Jorge left early today, Ate Helen took us to the Department of Immigration. To get there, we had to ride in a tricycle.

Filipino trike
On the way there, I rode in the side car with Karissa. It was a lot of fun, going fast on a bicycle with the cool wind whipping our faces...Ah....this is the life!

Anyway, when we got to the Department of Immigration, we did our best to fill out the confusing renewal papers and eventually were able to hand them to an official to be approved.

Then we found out the cost. It was 7,560 PHP (almost $200 USD) to renew it for two months! I was not happy with the price...Thankfully I had stopped at an ATM today or else I wouldn't have been able to pay for it...

When they finally granted me the extended visa, they also gave me a signed sheet of paper that read:

This is to certify that the name WILSON, DANIELLE RENEE born on ....... a citizen of the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA DOES NOT APPEAR in this Bureau's Hold Departure, Blacklist, Watch list, and/or Intelligence Derogatory Records as of August 24, 2012.

Gee, I'm so relieved! LOL.

Back to Shiphrah, we rode in another trike. This time, the only room for me was right behind the driver. So I rode on the motorcycle part side-saddle. At first, I was a little nervous, but then I relaxed and had fun. If given a choice, I'd probably ride side-saddle again. :-D

And as usual, here's more pictures!

my first COC to deliver! 
Abigail, the new intern, and Ate Bhel

Ryle, Ate Grace's son

helping moms fill out the paperwork before their first prenatal

Ube pictures waiting to be picked up. There aren't usually this many, but we've had so many moms deliver in the past few days...

stairs



Mymy! :-D

Brownie, one of my four-legged friends out here


he's incredibly sweet to me, but really nasty to the other dogs. Look closely at his nose - evidence of the fights he's been in. Crazy dog!

charred eggplant, cooked with egg and tomato. It's very interesting yet delicious!

birthing stools waiting to be used



hemostats and scissors

a cute four-month old who was at a birth 

she got an Ube pic too ;-D